you open a wedding invitation and have to think REAL HARD about who the bride is because you only really know her by her "dance name."

No kidding. It just happened to me.

What's your YKYABW?
posted by:
Christina
Chicago
  • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

    Thu, June 1, 2006 - 7:47 AM
    Constantly being in creative mode, ie "This would make a good accessory/ I can use this material to have a skirt- top-harem pants made/but my hip scarves are a different shade of orange so I can add this one to my collection cause you can never have to many hip scarves/ what color should I polish my toes." Quotes are mine. :-)

    But best-est of all, when my 80 year old mother says proudly to family and friends "You know Caerann is a belly dancer now." She has been the only other dancer in my family having performed tap in local USO shows with my grandma, aunt and uncle.
    • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

      Thu, June 1, 2006 - 8:04 AM
      Oh, my folks are so freakin' proud of what I do, it's scary! Here I thought leaving the respectable 7-3 M-F job with solid pay and benefits to go to a career that's TOTALLY dependent on how many gigs and students I can get and keep (not to mention taking a DRASTIC pay-cut from my public school teacher salary) would make them shake their heads. Nope! The last time they were visiting the family in Italy, they gathered eveyrone around the one computer and showed off my websites! Cracks me up!
  • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

    Fri, June 2, 2006 - 1:40 PM
    When you see a stray piece of fabric and your first instinct is to tie it around your hips. :)
    • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

      Sun, June 4, 2006 - 12:57 PM
      ...when you are doing locks and ribcage rotations at the front desk of the Chiropractic office where you work-while writing your SOAP notes!.....

      ...or when the receptionist at same office taps your breastage to confirm the unbelievable...that you are actually wearing your coin bra under your scrubs because you have a gig right after work and not enough time to change!!
  • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

    Mon, June 5, 2006 - 2:38 PM
    ---when you look at upolstery and think - I could use that tassell/fabric in this belt...
    ---you pick up every tank top in Express that has sequins or gems around the neckline...
    ---you start to buy clothing for its versatility aspect - you can wear it to work AND when dancing!
    ---you start to wear tribla jewelry to work because, well - it's the stuff you really like!
    ---you watch diligently for Target's "World Accents" decorating line to go on sale.
    ---you are constantly trying to devise a more efficient method of storing your costuming and supplies (usually through a combination of stored away/home decor methods)
    --You think large mirrors is the perfect answer for that blank wall in your new home.
    ---you look for homes based on the space to practice in.
    ---You don't have parties without Middle Eastern Food anymore.
    ---You're a member of 80 different bellydance tribes on Tribe.net, but barely read two.
    ---Your brain is constantly devising methods of freeing yourself from the mundane job and dancing for a living
    ---Your SO learns to smoke hookah and agrees to learn Arabic with you.

    Ok, I'm done for now.
  • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

    Tue, June 6, 2006 - 12:25 PM
    ...when you cannot figure out how to put on makeup and look 'normal' anymore
    ...when 75%+ of your music collection is not mainstream anything
    ...when it's your turn to pick music for the ride to xxxx, it's always Middle Eastern
    ...when you completely forget that tattoos, nose rings, bellyrings, etc. really *aren't* the norm
    ....when you start incorporating words like 'habibi' and 'aiwa' into everyday speech

    and that's just a start!
  • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

    Tue, June 6, 2006 - 4:10 PM
    When you go to see Spamalot (or any play) and start to zahgareet instead of clap.

    Guilty as charged!

    :o)
    • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

      Wed, June 7, 2006 - 10:15 AM
      I did that at a concert recently. Got lots of funny looks - but oh well.

      I've got another one:

      - when most of your vacation time at work is used for dance festivals and workshops :)
      • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

        Wed, June 7, 2006 - 11:28 AM
        that's a big one for me! I just realized all the time off I've requested is centered around ATS activities! I've even split my vacation time into individual days to go to performances and workshops!
        this one's been on my mind as of late:
        -- pondering to tear up the carpet and reveal the wood floors to practice on
        • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

          Wed, June 7, 2006 - 12:04 PM
          when you get in the car and the kids yell "AND NO BELLYDANCE MUSIC MOM!" or when they ARE in the BD mood...."Mom, Can we listen to Natacha?"
          • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

            Wed, June 7, 2006 - 4:53 PM
            I can sympathize on this one, except with my Cait it's "the gypsy stuff mom", mean while my hubby groans and reconsiders why he told me I was driving.

            My car, my music. I don't even know what pop/mainstream is anymore.

            oh! I have one...

            ...When your sister in laws new in laws dote on you and say things like "come, we play chiftitelli for you, you dance"
            • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

              Wed, June 7, 2006 - 7:02 PM
              .........when you are practicing floreo's at a stop light and the guy in the next car thinks you're waving at him! .............
              .........when you zhagaret at work to get the group's attention for announcements.....
              .........when you hesitate to take a promotion at work as it may interfere with your bellydancing schedule.........
              ..........when you decide to "layback" into picking up the rice bag off of the grocery store shelf.....its ok.....the aisle was cleared immediately...didn't have to squeeze past other shoppers!.........
              .........when the Cabbage Patch transitions into a torso or rib cage isolation.......actually very nicely indeed.........
              • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

                Wed, June 7, 2006 - 7:48 PM
                ---when your 8yr old and his friend are playing in the living room and you hear them singing along to "Chicky"!
                • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

                  Thu, June 8, 2006 - 10:24 PM
                  I love this tread!
                  Kids love that Chicky song!!

                  The make up one is so true. I wanted to wear big O fake eyelashes the other.
                  I was subconsciously doing chest circles to the oldies while waiting in line for ice cream the other day and didn't even know it till I notice stranger staring at me. The would totally crack me up to hear someone zaghareet a like there kids ballet recital. All other moms would be like " oh now we know what is wrong with little Suzy" ha ha ha

                  You know your a belly dancer when your boyfriend has an opinion about the proper technique for a three quarter shimmy. Robert did that the other day and I didn't even know he knew what a three quarter shimmy was.
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                    Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

                    Fri, June 9, 2006 - 7:26 PM
                    When you zargareet at your childs soccer game.

                    And honey, I am with you on the Target comments:)
                    • Re: You know you're a bellydancer when.....

                      Tue, June 13, 2006 - 6:54 PM
                      You go to a wedding and they dance the "Electric Slide" and you are the only one that does not know how to do it, and after learning it you add the 3/4 shimmy and pretty soon add rib cages and are not aware of it!

                      Go to Value City and buy the biggest shinniest earrings, necklaces and bracelets and do not notice the looks you are getting!

                      When standing in cold weather and begin to shiver and before you know it start layering rib cages and chest drops

                      Dancing every Saturday night at the club and not know what to do when you get the week-end off!!!

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